lynch1000s
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It seems like it! :crackup:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I agree :rock:horaholic said:Why else would this forum even exist?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Oh man i laughed hard at that one. To the OP, you kind of started this thread so that doesn't say much on your part. And some of us are actually just trying to better ourselves, i don't know about everyone else but it really helps me seeing that other guys are going through similar struggles.J. Darko said:Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?Sir Psycho Sexy said:id say 70% of us are stupid losers
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.lynch1000s said:So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?
I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser![]()
Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.joe henny said:About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.
I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.Thundernuts said:Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.
What seems odd is you have been a member here for 5 looooong years and you have just been hit with an epiphany? I am wasting a post responding to this, but I think your significant other must have hacked your Sosuave account and posted this, no?lynch1000s said:It seems like it! :crackup:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
yep and its called the 20/80 rule i thinkScars said:I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.
Ever heard of the 20/90 ratio? It's the theory that %20 of the top males "have" %90 of all the females.
There's guys that just "get it" and then there's guys who simply don't. There really is no "in-between".
-Scars
Anything but!lynch1000s said:It seems like it! :crackup: