lynch1000s
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It seems like it! :crackup:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is everyone who posts on this message board a stupid loser, who can't get many women?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PapiChulo
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Yes sure, including you fuktard
lynch1000s
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I agree :rock:horaholic said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes pretty much. But you know, some guys are working on themselves, there might me hope.
Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
Thundernuts
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Oh man i laughed hard at that one. To the OP, you kind of started this thread so that doesn't say much on your part. And some of us are actually just trying to better ourselves, i don't know about everyone else but it really helps me seeing that other guys are going through similar struggles.J. Darko said:
Sir Psycho Sexy
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id say 70% of us are stupid losers
lynch1000s
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So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?Sir Psycho Sexy said:
I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser
PapiChulo
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Firts of all, the guy is a troll.
Second, it's not quantity, it's quality - I could be laying fatties and ugliest left and right, given I had nothing else to do.
Third, we are smart enough to do some research and find this site - so not all that stupid, arent we?
Second, it's not quantity, it's quality - I could be laying fatties and ugliest left and right, given I had nothing else to do.
Third, we are smart enough to do some research and find this site - so not all that stupid, arent we?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.lynch1000s said:So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?
I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser
Thundernuts
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Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.joe henny said:
Scars
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I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.Thundernuts said:
Ever heard of the 20/90 ratio? It's the theory that %20 of the top males "have" %90 of all the females.
There's guys that just "get it" and then there's guys who simply don't. There really is no "in-between".
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SoldMySoul
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What seems odd is you have been a member here for 5 looooong years and you have just been hit with an epiphany? I am wasting a post responding to this, but I think your significant other must have hacked your Sosuave account and posted this, no?lynch1000s said:
You have enough time to write something so fvcking stupid, so what classification may we put you in sir?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anything but!lynch1000s said:
I came here about year and a half ago (lurked for a while) and even though I don't post much, I have been busy learning and applying many of the ideas and principles discussed. They don't all apply/suit my circumstances or sit with my basic personality/values well and I'll fully conceed that I'm nowhere near sorted in myself but I have made great strides all sorts of of ways.
I now have three women on the go and a few more on the way. Still including the one whose on/off behaviour brought me here looking for answers/understanding but she's not the one I'm now thinking-on as a possible prospect for something long term.
And I'm currently sizing-up a fourth, just because I can.
Thanks Sosuave.
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