Dhoulmagus
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i know there's pros to having it but I'm sick of the self narcism and dealing with bums and idiots on there. Is it better just to clean my fb out?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Is deleting Facebook a good idea
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Casillas
Don Juan
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There are more advantages of deleting Facebook than use it, I don't delete my account because in a way its important to be in the social media circle. But I delete it from all my electronic devices (Including my phone) because when I need to do something I don't distract myself just checking the stupid things they upload or share.
Who Dares Win
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I deleted facebook and didnt feel the need to remake it, once you can reach your contacts on whatsapp you no longer need it unless you're a high schooler.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I only keep mine for family really. When times are tough your friendsters won't be there.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Serenity
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I sometimes post about major stuff happening in life (what Facebook was intended for). I don't look at it so much. No need to delete it, I just don't go look if I don't feel like it.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yes. Good idea. Having said that I do have an account, but I never post anything, I just use it to keep track of friends and family. The women I date, sometimes send me friend requests but I ignore them, when they ask me about it I just say "I never post anything on it." Which is true and just leave it at that.
PeasantPlayer
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Have it for friends and family, think about deleting it everyday
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.