Dhoulmagus
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i know there's pros to having it but I'm sick of the self narcism and dealing with bums and idiots on there. Is it better just to clean my fb out?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is deleting Facebook a good idea
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Casillas
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There are more advantages of deleting Facebook than use it, I don't delete my account because in a way its important to be in the social media circle. But I delete it from all my electronic devices (Including my phone) because when I need to do something I don't distract myself just checking the stupid things they upload or share.
Who Dares Win
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I deleted facebook and didnt feel the need to remake it, once you can reach your contacts on whatsapp you no longer need it unless you're a high schooler.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I only keep mine for family really. When times are tough your friendsters won't be there.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Serenity
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I sometimes post about major stuff happening in life (what Facebook was intended for). I don't look at it so much. No need to delete it, I just don't go look if I don't feel like it.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yes. Good idea. Having said that I do have an account, but I never post anything, I just use it to keep track of friends and family. The women I date, sometimes send me friend requests but I ignore them, when they ask me about it I just say "I never post anything on it." Which is true and just leave it at that.
PeasantPlayer
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Have it for friends and family, think about deleting it everyday
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.