Dhoulmagus
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i know there's pros to having it but I'm sick of the self narcism and dealing with bums and idiots on there. Is it better just to clean my fb out?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is deleting Facebook a good idea
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Casillas
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There are more advantages of deleting Facebook than use it, I don't delete my account because in a way its important to be in the social media circle. But I delete it from all my electronic devices (Including my phone) because when I need to do something I don't distract myself just checking the stupid things they upload or share.
Who Dares Win
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I deleted facebook and didnt feel the need to remake it, once you can reach your contacts on whatsapp you no longer need it unless you're a high schooler.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I only keep mine for family really. When times are tough your friendsters won't be there.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Serenity
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I sometimes post about major stuff happening in life (what Facebook was intended for). I don't look at it so much. No need to delete it, I just don't go look if I don't feel like it.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yes. Good idea. Having said that I do have an account, but I never post anything, I just use it to keep track of friends and family. The women I date, sometimes send me friend requests but I ignore them, when they ask me about it I just say "I never post anything on it." Which is true and just leave it at that.
PeasantPlayer
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Have it for friends and family, think about deleting it everyday
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.