Dhoulmagus
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i know there's pros to having it but I'm sick of the self narcism and dealing with bums and idiots on there. Is it better just to clean my fb out?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is deleting Facebook a good idea
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Casillas
Don Juan
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There are more advantages of deleting Facebook than use it, I don't delete my account because in a way its important to be in the social media circle. But I delete it from all my electronic devices (Including my phone) because when I need to do something I don't distract myself just checking the stupid things they upload or share.
Who Dares Win
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I deleted facebook and didnt feel the need to remake it, once you can reach your contacts on whatsapp you no longer need it unless you're a high schooler.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
I mean I dont give a fvck about other people life and they dont give a fvck about mine, I dont wanna see their ugly kids and they dont wanna see my gym shots so why pretend we do?
Also to know that a girl can show me to her friends and debate about my worth as person from a cellphone doesnt really make me happy since we talk about dating here.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I only keep mine for family really. When times are tough your friendsters won't be there.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Before I got my current girlfriend I did have a few woman screen themselves out by asking for my Facebook before they would meet up. Why the hell I would agree for some random chick to sit in judgement of my life I don't know. Also smells of low interest and I don't have time to bother trying to turn maybes into yes. And it's a pretty good indication that they are social media obsessed which is a huge red flag for me. So yeah if you don't kill Facebook at least prune it hard.
Serenity
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I sometimes post about major stuff happening in life (what Facebook was intended for). I don't look at it so much. No need to delete it, I just don't go look if I don't feel like it.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yes. Good idea. Having said that I do have an account, but I never post anything, I just use it to keep track of friends and family. The women I date, sometimes send me friend requests but I ignore them, when they ask me about it I just say "I never post anything on it." Which is true and just leave it at that.
PeasantPlayer
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Have it for friends and family, think about deleting it everyday
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.