"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is 7 on HOT OR NOT a decent enough rating?

TheLoner

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of a girl, what do you think?

If a girl is a 7 on hot or not, is she decent?

Opinions?
 

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im really not into rating people on a scale of numbers, for me either a woman turns me on or she doesnt, some more then others and some not at all, but either you want to have sex with a woman or you dont regardless of whatever number you assign to that person
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If we are dating a girl, and we put her picture on hotornot, this will tell us what others truly think of her.

And i think if that number is below 7 then there is a problem.
 

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HotOrNot only rates photos, not people.

It used to be that HotorNot overrated everyone using a bell curve. But now the ratings seem accurate. It at least provides a common standard so IMO its ok to test out photos of women you've dated.

Finally, SoSuave is a site for helping men date women they like.To try and disqualify a members advice because you underrated a photo of their woman is missing the point. And of course 7 is hot.
 

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either a woman makes your penis tingle or she doesnt right ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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foreverAFC said:
either a woman makes your penis tingle or she doesnt right ?
some people were saying the woman I am seeing is ugly.

I put up a picture to see if that was true and she got a 7.5.
I don't think she is ugly, and I think that site proved it.
 

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TheLoner said:
some people were saying the woman I am seeing is ugly.
Yo, F*CK "some people." Anybody who would try to piss in your cappuccino regarding a woman you are seeing aren't worth your time. Real friends would LIE to you about a girl's looks if you're happy with them.

I put up a picture to see if that was true and she got a 7.5.
I don't think she is ugly, and I think that site proved it.
Nope, you not thinking she's ugly proved it.

But where are the pics.
 

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TheLoner = troll

He is a troll.

He is a troll.

He is a troll.
 

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FairShake said:
Yo, F*CK "some people." Anybody who would try to piss in your cappuccino regarding a woman you are seeing aren't worth your time. Real friends would LIE to you about a girl's looks if you're happy with them.



Nope, you not thinking she's ugly proved it.

But where are the pics.
Well I needed to know whether most people thought she was ugly or not. And hotornot proved to me she was a solid 7.5.

I'm not sharing her pic here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FairShake said:
maybe im blind to the fact that shes ugly,

but I ran that hot or not test a few times, and always
she rates above a 7.

so, she not ugly.
 

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plate's_empty said:
does she look like this?

If so, she's higher than a 7.

NSFW

Her legs are a little too thick and her boobs are a little too big...fake looking...but i would give her about a 7.5...but then again i am more attracted to the Asian women who have very petite but at the same time curvy bodies
 

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zinc4 said:
Her legs are a little too thick and her boobs are a little too big...fake looking...but i would give her about a 7.5...but then again i am more attracted to the Asian women who have very petite but at the same time curvy bodies
Yeah, I can see that there. Skinnier wouldn't be bad, to me, it all depends on the girl, and how their total package is put together. And she's put together pretty well. This chick looks like at least a 9, further review might be up close to the 10 range. Maybe not in a few years but at that time, she looks pretty good.


EDIT: And as far tits go, fake or not, those are pretty much as perfect as big tits can be.
 
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Yeah, I can see that there. Skinnier wouldn't be bad, to me, it all depends on the girl, and how their total package is put together. And she's put together pretty well. This chick looks like at least a 9, further review might be up close to the 10 range. Maybe not in a few years but at that time, she looks pretty good.


EDIT: And as far tits go, fake or not, those are pretty much as perfect as big tits can be.

A 9....no way man...only a natural beauty who also looks like a supermodel can be a 9...she looks like a fake porn star which she probably is...not to say a porn star can't be a nine looks wise because there are some really good looking ones that don't have that super fake look but this chick is not one of them.....fake boobs too thick of thighs super slutty looking face....she is just a fake cheap looking chick anyway you cut it....no way in hell she is a 9....don't get me wrong i would tear it up any day but she is nowhere close to a 9...

Here is what I consider a 9 looks wise:

http://guanabee.com/gallery/wurth-2011-calendar-supermodels-pictures/wurth-2011-calendar-supermodels-pictures-05/
 

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zinc4 said:
A 9....no way man...only a natural beauty who also looks like a supermodel can be a 9...she looks like a fake porn star which she probably is...not to say a porn star can't be a nine looks wise because there are some really good looking ones that don't have that super fake look but this chick is not one of them.....fake boobs too thick of thighs super slutty looking face....she is just a fake looking chick anyway you cut it....no way in hell she is a 9....
and this brings us to our next lesson. Don't smoke crack.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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