"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is 7 on HOT OR NOT a decent enough rating?

TheLoner

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of a girl, what do you think?

If a girl is a 7 on hot or not, is she decent?

Opinions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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im really not into rating people on a scale of numbers, for me either a woman turns me on or she doesnt, some more then others and some not at all, but either you want to have sex with a woman or you dont regardless of whatever number you assign to that person
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheLoner

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If we are dating a girl, and we put her picture on hotornot, this will tell us what others truly think of her.

And i think if that number is below 7 then there is a problem.
 

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HotOrNot only rates photos, not people.

It used to be that HotorNot overrated everyone using a bell curve. But now the ratings seem accurate. It at least provides a common standard so IMO its ok to test out photos of women you've dated.

Finally, SoSuave is a site for helping men date women they like.To try and disqualify a members advice because you underrated a photo of their woman is missing the point. And of course 7 is hot.
 

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either a woman makes your penis tingle or she doesnt right ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheLoner

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foreverAFC said:
either a woman makes your penis tingle or she doesnt right ?
some people were saying the woman I am seeing is ugly.

I put up a picture to see if that was true and she got a 7.5.
I don't think she is ugly, and I think that site proved it.
 

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TheLoner said:
some people were saying the woman I am seeing is ugly.
Yo, F*CK "some people." Anybody who would try to piss in your cappuccino regarding a woman you are seeing aren't worth your time. Real friends would LIE to you about a girl's looks if you're happy with them.

I put up a picture to see if that was true and she got a 7.5.
I don't think she is ugly, and I think that site proved it.
Nope, you not thinking she's ugly proved it.

But where are the pics.
 

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TheLoner = troll

He is a troll.

He is a troll.

He is a troll.
 

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FairShake said:
Yo, F*CK "some people." Anybody who would try to piss in your cappuccino regarding a woman you are seeing aren't worth your time. Real friends would LIE to you about a girl's looks if you're happy with them.



Nope, you not thinking she's ugly proved it.

But where are the pics.
Well I needed to know whether most people thought she was ugly or not. And hotornot proved to me she was a solid 7.5.

I'm not sharing her pic here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FairShake said:
maybe im blind to the fact that shes ugly,

but I ran that hot or not test a few times, and always
she rates above a 7.

so, she not ugly.
 

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plate's_empty said:
does she look like this?

If so, she's higher than a 7.

NSFW

Her legs are a little too thick and her boobs are a little too big...fake looking...but i would give her about a 7.5...but then again i am more attracted to the Asian women who have very petite but at the same time curvy bodies
 

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zinc4 said:
Her legs are a little too thick and her boobs are a little too big...fake looking...but i would give her about a 7.5...but then again i am more attracted to the Asian women who have very petite but at the same time curvy bodies
Yeah, I can see that there. Skinnier wouldn't be bad, to me, it all depends on the girl, and how their total package is put together. And she's put together pretty well. This chick looks like at least a 9, further review might be up close to the 10 range. Maybe not in a few years but at that time, she looks pretty good.


EDIT: And as far tits go, fake or not, those are pretty much as perfect as big tits can be.
 
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plate's_empty said:
Yeah, I can see that there. Skinnier wouldn't be bad, to me, it all depends on the girl, and how their total package is put together. And she's put together pretty well. This chick looks like at least a 9, further review might be up close to the 10 range. Maybe not in a few years but at that time, she looks pretty good.


EDIT: And as far tits go, fake or not, those are pretty much as perfect as big tits can be.

A 9....no way man...only a natural beauty who also looks like a supermodel can be a 9...she looks like a fake porn star which she probably is...not to say a porn star can't be a nine looks wise because there are some really good looking ones that don't have that super fake look but this chick is not one of them.....fake boobs too thick of thighs super slutty looking face....she is just a fake cheap looking chick anyway you cut it....no way in hell she is a 9....don't get me wrong i would tear it up any day but she is nowhere close to a 9...

Here is what I consider a 9 looks wise:

http://guanabee.com/gallery/wurth-2011-calendar-supermodels-pictures/wurth-2011-calendar-supermodels-pictures-05/
 

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zinc4 said:
A 9....no way man...only a natural beauty who also looks like a supermodel can be a 9...she looks like a fake porn star which she probably is...not to say a porn star can't be a nine looks wise because there are some really good looking ones that don't have that super fake look but this chick is not one of them.....fake boobs too thick of thighs super slutty looking face....she is just a fake looking chick anyway you cut it....no way in hell she is a 9....
and this brings us to our next lesson. Don't smoke crack.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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