I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bud_2005 said:I test drove the 08 Mitsubishi Lancer Evolution today and I liked everything about it except that its only a 150 horsepower engine. Its a 2.0 Mivec? Is that near enough power for a car in your opinion?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yea, even the old ones had about 200, he was looking at the 4 cylinder models not V6.ValleyDJing said:The 2007 Toyota Camry's are coming with 268 hp buddy.
http://www.edmunds.com/apps/vdpcontainers/do/vdp/articleId=109049/pageNumber=1
yessir! 4 cylinders blow! Never go lower than 6.Play the Game said:Yea, even the old ones had about 200, he was looking at the 4 cylinder models not V6.
Not that i'm advising anyone to buy a camry, lol, but when you step on the gas in the V6 it's a whole different experience. You hear the low pitched purr of the engine and it just goes, effortlessly. No whining and screaming like with the 4 cylinder.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Wiesman44 said:You're a bloody idiot. For several reasons:
1) the '08 EVO has 300 hp
2) The '08 EVo doesn't come out til March of next year
3) You test drove a Lancer, not a Lancer EVO
4) I have an '08 EVO on order so i know what the f#ck i'm talking about
SmoothTalker said:Sorry, but I have to agree with azanon. What the hell do you guys need so much power for? The vast majority of people with big engines don't use them.
Now don't get me wrong, I like a nice sports car as much as the next guy, but there's a difference between that, and just getting a v6/v8 in your 'get groceries and go to work' car, because all that does is burn gas.
No wonder America guzzles so much gas, you have people believing that you should never go below 6 cylinders. In most of the world, 4 cylinders is plenty.
It's funny because the American car companies are getting their asses handed to them year after year, and their brilliant strategy now is to continue doing what most of the world has moved away from years ago, ie big, useless muscle.
So to answer the original question, it depends. My car is 140hp, and it does just fine for everything I've ever needed. If you are planning on racing, or have something to compensate for, then get more. Otherwise, 150hp is plenty.
Skel said:It's funny because most of my friends call people that bought Evo's idiots.