Internet dating is SO EASY (read on)

[skip2mylou781]

i will post a threat on how i # close on AIM and wat i do from there, LOOK FOR IT VERY VERY VERY SOON

 

[Rad]

What my friends and I usually do is find some chicks on Myspace who live in a close radius to us, and meet them in a public place where there are lots of people. If they look good, and can get along we exchange #s and the whole process begins .

 

[The_Lifter]

I've only just started learning this stuff so go easy.

I've been talking to this chick for a month or so, leaning back, being generally mysterious and rolling with the C&F. She's been giving me the come on throughout. Lately she's started talking to me about this drama that's happening with her ex and how she's sad because he's sad and how she doesn't want to see him upset, she tells me when he's calling, how often she talks to him and all this crap. She's a little bit insecure, so it could actually be genuine (or maybe I don't know enough yet). At first I reacted to it the way any AFC would do by comforting her but lately I've just been completely indifferent or ended the conversation altogether.

Is she shyt testing me?

 

[oobm]

Originally posted by The_Lifter
I've only just started learning this stuff so go easy.

I've been talking to this chick for a month or so, leaning back, being generally mysterious and rolling with the C&F. She's been giving me the come on throughout. Lately she's started talking to me about this drama that's happening with her ex and how she's sad because he's sad and how she doesn't want to see him upset, she tells me when he's calling, how often she talks to him and all this crap. She's a little bit insecure, so it could actually be genuine (or maybe I don't know enough yet). At first I reacted to it the way any AFC would do by comforting her but lately I've just been completely indifferent or ended the conversation altogether.

Is she shyt testing me?

sounds like friend zone

 

[skip2mylou781]

i forgot to mention a rule - do NOT talk longer to a girl online than a WEEK until u set up a date....dont just keep talkin for a month with nothin to show, its a waste of ur pimpin time man

 

[The_Lifter]

Oh but I have set up a date...and a massage.

You know the rest.

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

numbers game

You do have the advantage in the big cities, when there are a few thou hotties within your zip code. It's a bit tougher out here in the sticks, with 20 or 30 medium-to-hot chicks within 10 miles worth messaging, and 80% of them being total flakes.

It's only a numbers game if there are enough numbers, knowutimeen?

 

[Bonhomme]

In person has been easier for me

I've always had better results meeting women in person, but then, I mostly date younger women, which I can do easily enough because I look their age.


Almost all of them would be out of the picture straightaway online, all because of one little number...

 

[OfficeSpace]

You have a 30% reply rate? Hmm, I do a little better.. usually like 2 out of the 3 hotties I message reply back...

I've never gone on a date with someone on myspace though. I just talk with them online so I get a little confidence boost when they tell me how cute I am.

But I think most people have not had a good relationship with someone they have just met online.

 

[JH6]

amen, i've been macking it semi hard on myspace for the past few months. Had a ton of dates, just recently met this girl and started a serious relationship and i'm happy with myself.

 

[Scorched]

I think we can all agree ther myspace chicks are easy but with ease comes risk...

 

[skip2mylou781]

i dunno if this means my confidence is high, but i basically do not even care anymore if a girl says im cute or hot, cuz ive heard it wayyyyyyyyyyy too much.....i kno that a girl is a keeper tho when she says somethin like "omg your sooo sexi" or "you are gorgeous"....and actually, if I was to break down my exact success with girls on the internet in my WHOLE LIFE (i been usin the internet to meet girls for 3 years now), then here is an estimate as to how it goes -


1000 girls that ive sent messages to or IMed and hit on them.

500 totally ignore me (maybe i wasnt hot to them or they dont do internet).

500 gave me their sn, thought I was at the very least cute, and we talked a lil bit on AIM

80-90 said I was hot, we flirted and gave compliments, ect ect

30 or so said im SO ****IN GORGEOUS

whether a girl said im cute, hot, or gorgeous, id say ive gotten about 200#s from AIM in my life

I hung out (chilled or went on a date) with about 100 girls total from internet sites (some dates were with girls who just said im cute, some were with girls who thought i was incredibly gorgeous),

70 girls i at least kissed and did some stuff with,

****ed about 25 of those,

also had 3 serious gf's (all of who i ****ed too)




COMPARE THIS TO NON-INTERNET

1 serious gf, prob around 100 girls making out with and stuff,
20 ****ed (2 were strippers and 2 were escorts, i had to have some fun on vacation ), and really anyone who i DIDNT meet online, i never talk to anymore EVER


any comments on all this shenanagins?

 

[L777]

Originally posted by skip2mylou781
i get about a 30% reply rate, so if i send out 50 messages, i get about 20 sns

enough said



and then from skip2mylou:

"1000 girls that ive sent messages to or IMed and hit on them.

500 totally ignore me (maybe i wasnt hot to them or they dont do internet).

500 gave me their sn, thought I was at the very least cute, and we talked a lil bit on AIM

80-90 said I was hot, we flirted and gave compliments, ect ect

30 or so said im SO ****IN GORGEOUS

whether a girl said im cute, hot, or gorgeous, id say ive gotten about 200#s from AIM in my life

I hung out (chilled or went on a date) with about 100 girls total from internet sites (some dates were with girls who just said im cute, some were with girls who thought i was incredibly gorgeous),

70 girls i at least kissed and did some stuff with,

****ed about 25 of those,

also had 3 serious gf's (all of who i ****ed too)"


utter, utter s.hite....bloody keyboard jockeys

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by LeviathanIYG
Yep It's easy to net sarge but a lot of men want to learn the art of approaching, seducing and closing.

And this is why a lot of guys can't sarge online. They don't understand that you still need to approach, seduce and close (with various other steps in between).

Most guys have the problem of always needing an immediate way to read a woman's actions. I've realized that these are guys who aren't in control of the interaction; they are basically watching what the woman does and the reacts to it.

DJ's that successfully sarge online seldom react to the interactions online, they typically lead everything. From emails, IMs, telephone calls and face to face meetings they are in the lead. No need to see how she's reacting if you have her mesmerized into following you.

 

[Inc. ©]

I'm all for the internet thing. I was getting into cold approachs before, but that isn't very worthwhile if you ask me. I'll tell you why. Cold approaches in regular situations are just awkward...I did some at the mall, beach...it doesn't feel right. The girl is going about her business and you're bothering her. Think about a salesperson interupting you at the mall. Most girls aren't gonna appreciate it. Sometimes they do, but why do that when internet is so much easier. Then you got clubs where its easy to kiss girls and get numbers, but they are most likely gonna assume you are some dumb guy who's life consists of drinking and clubbing. Myspace is great...they get to read my profile and they see I'm a good guy with good interests and its easy as crap to get the number. Then you meet up for a date. You still have to seduce, but you get rid of all the annoying approach stuff and you can email them in mass without taking up as much time as wasting your whole day walking around a mall or going to the bars every night.

 

[Passion]

This is a great tip. It's just a #'s game. It's like baseball, just go for a .250 and you're good.

 

[Bonhomme]

80-90 said I was hot, we flirted and gave compliments, ect ect

30 or so said im SO ****IN GORGEOUS

That says it all in a nushell. This info does not apply at all to guys who are not "****in gorgeous."

Myspace is great for kids. If you're well over 30, forget it, unless you're in a band, and can pass for younger.

 

[Vanilla]

I call this thread bullsh!t without actual proof or links.

 

[Hitman10000]

Should we take advice from a guy that posts dumb stuff on this site?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107147

 

[Wee]

Ok so maybe years ago guys that hit on girls over the net were all AFCs that would never get pvssy. Hell, even today these guys still exist. If any of you actually did care about picking up women then you wouldn't jump on the bandwagon saying "Internet dating is for losers" and all of that crap just because it has a bad rep. A real playa like myself up adapts to the new ages, and with the internet today, meeting girls over the net is an extremely easy way to keep pvssy coming in. I'd say 30% of my incoming girls are coming off the net. Probably more in the future, the sh*t is good.