"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interesting Cold Approach over the weekend

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And thanks for resurrecting this thread. It brings back good memories of me flat out being over confident, direct and witty with that chick in Louisville. The process doesn't always work but it ALWAYS works with a woman that has interest.
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Big ups @Doc love. Rip. Interest levels are determining factor for time allocation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Glassguy said:
And thanks for resurrecting this thread. It brings back good memories of me flat out being over confident, direct and witty with that chick in Louisville. The process doesn't always work but it ALWAYS works with a woman that has interest.
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@Glassguy did you end up meeting up with her again as the initial post seemed to indicate might happen?
 
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@Glassguy did you end up meeting up with her again as the initial post seemed to indicate might happen?
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I did not. We were supposed to have another 2day tournament in Louisville the following month but Covid ended up wiping out the rest of our travel season.

I would have 100% sure met back up with her though. She was attractive, fun and seemed spontaneous. My kind of girl.
 
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