@zinc4
I will give you a little insight as to my above question:
If there is attraction, other things come into play. Lets call them second layer things: Body language, charisma, social skills, indifferent outcome thinking, personality, wittiness, etc. Those things become the next layer of things a woman is screening IF she is sexually attracted.
If she is NOT sexually attractive, those things do not matter.
So to answer my own question, if there is attraction, the woman begins screening the 2nd layers (that most consider "game"). If there is no sexual attraction, the 2nd layers dont matter at all because her interest level will remain low or non existent.
Had I tried what I did at the bar and the woman not at least been somewhat attracted to my looks, nothing else would have mattered. She would have never walked out to turn around and walk right back in. And there are plenty of women that wouldnt find me "attractive" because I wouldnt fit the mold for what they find attractive.
This is why the same "game" works on some women and not others. They just dont find you attractive. And thats ok because everyone has their own look that they like.
Attraction leads to interest. Interest leads to interaction (those 2nd layer things above). A woman is programmed to screen men out.
You dont have to look like an Olympian to get from attraction to interest to the other things. You just have to look good enough to THAT woman to move from point A (some level of attraction high enough to proceed) through the rest of it.