"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interested in a girl from class

jboyd5

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I think I may have already fked my chances of approaching. I have always read not to **** where you eat, and made this mistake in the past. But Monday will be the last class we have together and it will be an exam day. She is always late to class, and this test day will probably cause us to leave at separate times. I hesitate to even ask if I should just slip her my number cause I know that will probably seem like an easy way out.

How do you guys suggest I go about this situation? OR are my chances done?
Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dingo

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
 

marmel75

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
Exactly this
 

Dingo

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And tell us how it goes...

No Fear...
 

wifehunter

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have plans already, ask her to join you.

Get her on your turf.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

greatsnake

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Don’t think about it, just do it...

Approach her and ask her out for a coffee date. That’s it
 
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