"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jboyd5

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I think I may have already fked my chances of approaching. I have always read not to **** where you eat, and made this mistake in the past. But Monday will be the last class we have together and it will be an exam day. She is always late to class, and this test day will probably cause us to leave at separate times. I hesitate to even ask if I should just slip her my number cause I know that will probably seem like an easy way out.

How do you guys suggest I go about this situation? OR are my chances done?
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dingo

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
 
marmel75

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Dingo said:
Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
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Dingo

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And tell us how it goes...

No Fear...
 
wifehunter

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have plans already, ask her to join you.

Get her on your turf.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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greatsnake

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Don’t think about it, just do it...

Approach her and ask her out for a coffee date. That’s it
 
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