"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jboyd5

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I think I may have already fked my chances of approaching. I have always read not to **** where you eat, and made this mistake in the past. But Monday will be the last class we have together and it will be an exam day. She is always late to class, and this test day will probably cause us to leave at separate times. I hesitate to even ask if I should just slip her my number cause I know that will probably seem like an easy way out.

How do you guys suggest I go about this situation? OR are my chances done?
Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dingo

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
 
marmel75

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Dingo said:
Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
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Exactly this
 
Dingo

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And tell us how it goes...

No Fear...
 
wifehunter

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have plans already, ask her to join you.

Get her on your turf.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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greatsnake

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Don’t think about it, just do it...

Approach her and ask her out for a coffee date. That’s it
 
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