"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interested in a girl from class

jboyd5

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I think I may have already fked my chances of approaching. I have always read not to **** where you eat, and made this mistake in the past. But Monday will be the last class we have together and it will be an exam day. She is always late to class, and this test day will probably cause us to leave at separate times. I hesitate to even ask if I should just slip her my number cause I know that will probably seem like an easy way out.

How do you guys suggest I go about this situation? OR are my chances done?
Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dingo

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
 

marmel75

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
Exactly this
 

Dingo

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And tell us how it goes...

No Fear...
 

wifehunter

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have plans already, ask her to join you.

Get her on your turf.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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greatsnake

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Don’t think about it, just do it...

Approach her and ask her out for a coffee date. That’s it
 
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