"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Interested in a girl from class

jboyd5

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I think I may have already fked my chances of approaching. I have always read not to **** where you eat, and made this mistake in the past. But Monday will be the last class we have together and it will be an exam day. She is always late to class, and this test day will probably cause us to leave at separate times. I hesitate to even ask if I should just slip her my number cause I know that will probably seem like an easy way out.

How do you guys suggest I go about this situation? OR are my chances done?
Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dingo

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
 

marmel75

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Man up....

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee.. drinks... whatever....

It's not a mystery guys... You just have to have balls and go for it.

Remember.... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET....
Exactly this
 

Dingo

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And tell us how it goes...

No Fear...
 

wifehunter

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have plans already, ask her to join you.

Get her on your turf.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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greatsnake

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Don’t think about it, just do it...

Approach her and ask her out for a coffee date. That’s it
 
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