"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Insecurity disguised as low interest.

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Barrister

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With who, @Pan87? I'm too old for him, plus he lives on the other side of the globe. I was just messin you.

That said, your (and other men's) jealousy of him is palpable! Xd
@Pan87 can have his women (including you apparently). I am doing just fine.

Edit: And to be clear I was just messing with you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I learned a lot about it through my ex, he was a huge "player" when I met him. I do believe he employed some Pua strategies on me, which worked! After we broke up, I did a massive amount of reading about it. Anything and everything I could get my hands on.

That, plus I am a highly intuitive, perceptive and intelligent person. And and Aries (sun sign). We tend to be direct and no nonsense, which I am. Confuses many men since appearance wise, I look like a soft powder puff. lol

And I don't discount much of what you guys preach either, I am not your enemy, not even @Pan87 lol who may be the brashest person I've ever encountered on an on-line forum, but like I said I enjoy his posts, his style. Not saying that to boost ego, it's just my opinion.

I might even fall for him IRL, and him for me!! Despite my age (30). LOL
I don't think we should be taking advice from someone who believe that astrology is a real thing.
 

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Lol, I have done that on other forums, lord have mercy! Never again. You will just have to wonder.

Plus, I am not here for validation, about my looks or anything else, I am here to share my thoughts and opinions. That's all.
What happened when you did it on other forums?
 

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I got bombarded with messages from men wanting to chat with me, date me, sext with me, you name it. Stalked, harassed. Not PUA forums, just regular advice forums.

Never again, it's not my style anyway. Like I said, I am not here (or anywhere) seeking validation.

Truth.
Ok. Well the other female on this forum has a picture of herself on her profile and that doesn't happen to her. Just saying...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wonder what the guys on here think of this statement. Do you all think her appearance is irrelevant to her advice?
I think you endlessly attempting to get a pic of her is irrelevant to the thread.

I am not here to find a "boyfriend," I am here to post my thoughts. lol
Cool, keep them on topic going forward.



Thread has been derailed, and quite frankly, turned a little weird. Closed.
 
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