"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Insecurity disguised as low interest.

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Barrister

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With who, @Pan87? I'm too old for him, plus he lives on the other side of the globe. I was just messin you.

That said, your (and other men's) jealousy of him is palpable! Xd
@Pan87 can have his women (including you apparently). I am doing just fine.

Edit: And to be clear I was just messing with you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I learned a lot about it through my ex, he was a huge "player" when I met him. I do believe he employed some Pua strategies on me, which worked! After we broke up, I did a massive amount of reading about it. Anything and everything I could get my hands on.

That, plus I am a highly intuitive, perceptive and intelligent person. And and Aries (sun sign). We tend to be direct and no nonsense, which I am. Confuses many men since appearance wise, I look like a soft powder puff. lol

And I don't discount much of what you guys preach either, I am not your enemy, not even @Pan87 lol who may be the brashest person I've ever encountered on an on-line forum, but like I said I enjoy his posts, his style. Not saying that to boost ego, it's just my opinion.

I might even fall for him IRL, and him for me!! Despite my age (30). LOL
I don't think we should be taking advice from someone who believe that astrology is a real thing.
 

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Lol, I have done that on other forums, lord have mercy! Never again. You will just have to wonder.

Plus, I am not here for validation, about my looks or anything else, I am here to share my thoughts and opinions. That's all.
What happened when you did it on other forums?
 

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I got bombarded with messages from men wanting to chat with me, date me, sext with me, you name it. Stalked, harassed. Not PUA forums, just regular advice forums.

Never again, it's not my style anyway. Like I said, I am not here (or anywhere) seeking validation.

Truth.
Ok. Well the other female on this forum has a picture of herself on her profile and that doesn't happen to her. Just saying...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wonder what the guys on here think of this statement. Do you all think her appearance is irrelevant to her advice?
I think you endlessly attempting to get a pic of her is irrelevant to the thread.

I am not here to find a "boyfriend," I am here to post my thoughts. lol
Cool, keep them on topic going forward.



Thread has been derailed, and quite frankly, turned a little weird. Closed.
 
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