"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Informing a woman of dealbreaker fetish
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have no desire to give or receive a golden shower.
I just like to watch her pee.
From what I've heard, many a woman leaves the door open while peeing if she's home alone with her man. Therefore even if he's not into watching, he'll inevitably end up catching glimpses if he passes by the bathroom.
I like to take it to the next level and actively be right there watching while she pees.
I'm aware "I couldn't drop my fetish" isn't a viable defense. I would never, for example, follow a woman into the ladies room (or set up a camera) to watch her pee.
There's a reason I've only "thought of" it (and never followed through)
I appreciate your encouragement (I genuinely do).
But wouldn't she notice I'm going out of my way to get a view of her pee stream? That would be a tip off to the fact it arouses me.
The typical man doesn't check out her pee stream if he's talking to her while she's peeing.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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More than a hint that you shouldn't be doing so either
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Have you considered not simply boning trannies, but BECOMING trans yourself, GM? Joining women whilst their in the(public) crapper will then be default
More of a hint that the typical man lacks my fetish.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Holy DEER!
Engaging with him only reinforces his behaviour, fuels the fire, and gives him the attention he wants; when his threads get zero comments, he’ll stop this nonsense, so it would be more effective to ignore him instead.
I doubt it will ever happen since people’s impulses will get the better of them and they’ll just hit reply.
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Yeah, because it drives away not just women, but most people in general
My fetish is such a harmless fetish, I'm better off without anyone who hates me for my fetish (one good thing about having ASD: we're content with isolation)
At the kinkster brunch I attended this summer, one of the attendees said he likes to bruise a woman's melons. Another attendee said she likes to get tied up. Another attendee said he likes his mouth to get used as a toilet.
Watching a woman pee is way milder than any of those fetishes.
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Which was already pretty damned vanilla, even before 50SOG
I've always found the tying up fetish freaky (and dangerous). The other party could murder you while you're helplessly tied up.
Watching a woman pee, on the other hand, now that's vanilla.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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