"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Informing a woman of dealbreaker fetish
- Thread starter GoodMan32
- Start date
- Status
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I have no desire to give or receive a golden shower.
I just like to watch her pee.
From what I've heard, many a woman leaves the door open while peeing if she's home alone with her man. Therefore even if he's not into watching, he'll inevitably end up catching glimpses if he passes by the bathroom.
I like to take it to the next level and actively be right there watching while she pees.
I'm aware "I couldn't drop my fetish" isn't a viable defense. I would never, for example, follow a woman into the ladies room (or set up a camera) to watch her pee.
There's a reason I've only "thought of" it (and never followed through)
I appreciate your encouragement (I genuinely do).
But wouldn't she notice I'm going out of my way to get a view of her pee stream? That would be a tip off to the fact it arouses me.
The typical man doesn't check out her pee stream if he's talking to her while she's peeing.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Clockwerk50
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2023
- Messages
- 2,312
- Reaction score
- 2,346
- Age
- 41
BPH
Master Don Juan
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
More than a hint that you shouldn't be doing so either
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
Have you considered not simply boning trannies, but BECOMING trans yourself, GM? Joining women whilst their in the(public) crapper will then be default
More of a hint that the typical man lacks my fetish.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Clockwerk50
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2023
- Messages
- 2,312
- Reaction score
- 2,346
- Age
- 41
Holy DEER!
Engaging with him only reinforces his behaviour, fuels the fire, and gives him the attention he wants; when his threads get zero comments, he’ll stop this nonsense, so it would be more effective to ignore him instead.
I doubt it will ever happen since people’s impulses will get the better of them and they’ll just hit reply.
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
Yeah, because it drives away not just women, but most people in general
My fetish is such a harmless fetish, I'm better off without anyone who hates me for my fetish (one good thing about having ASD: we're content with isolation)
At the kinkster brunch I attended this summer, one of the attendees said he likes to bruise a woman's melons. Another attendee said she likes to get tied up. Another attendee said he likes his mouth to get used as a toilet.
Watching a woman pee is way milder than any of those fetishes.
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
Which was already pretty damned vanilla, even before 50SOG
I've always found the tying up fetish freaky (and dangerous). The other party could murder you while you're helplessly tied up.
Watching a woman pee, on the other hand, now that's vanilla.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Serenity
Moderator
Thread locked.
- Status