“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Informing a woman of dealbreaker fetish
- Thread starter GoodMan32
- Start date
- Status
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have no desire to give or receive a golden shower.
I just like to watch her pee.
From what I've heard, many a woman leaves the door open while peeing if she's home alone with her man. Therefore even if he's not into watching, he'll inevitably end up catching glimpses if he passes by the bathroom.
I like to take it to the next level and actively be right there watching while she pees.
I'm aware "I couldn't drop my fetish" isn't a viable defense. I would never, for example, follow a woman into the ladies room (or set up a camera) to watch her pee.
There's a reason I've only "thought of" it (and never followed through)
I appreciate your encouragement (I genuinely do).
But wouldn't she notice I'm going out of my way to get a view of her pee stream? That would be a tip off to the fact it arouses me.
The typical man doesn't check out her pee stream if he's talking to her while she's peeing.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Clockwerk50
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2023
- Messages
- 2,312
- Reaction score
- 2,346
- Age
- 41
BPH
Master Don Juan
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
More than a hint that you shouldn't be doing so either
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
Have you considered not simply boning trannies, but BECOMING trans yourself, GM? Joining women whilst their in the(public) crapper will then be default
More of a hint that the typical man lacks my fetish.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Clockwerk50
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2023
- Messages
- 2,312
- Reaction score
- 2,346
- Age
- 41
Holy DEER!
Engaging with him only reinforces his behaviour, fuels the fire, and gives him the attention he wants; when his threads get zero comments, he’ll stop this nonsense, so it would be more effective to ignore him instead.
I doubt it will ever happen since people’s impulses will get the better of them and they’ll just hit reply.
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
Yeah, because it drives away not just women, but most people in general
My fetish is such a harmless fetish, I'm better off without anyone who hates me for my fetish (one good thing about having ASD: we're content with isolation)
At the kinkster brunch I attended this summer, one of the attendees said he likes to bruise a woman's melons. Another attendee said she likes to get tied up. Another attendee said he likes his mouth to get used as a toilet.
Watching a woman pee is way milder than any of those fetishes.
BaronOfHair
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2024
- Messages
- 5,560
- Reaction score
- 3,037
- Age
- 37
Which was already pretty damned vanilla, even before 50SOG
I've always found the tying up fetish freaky (and dangerous). The other party could murder you while you're helplessly tied up.
Watching a woman pee, on the other hand, now that's vanilla.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Serenity
Moderator
Thread locked.
- Status