Informing a woman of dealbreaker fetish

[GoodMan32]

Have you tried NOT having a fetish that you HAVE to explore with every woman you meet?

My fetish is every bit as enjoyable to me as sex. In fact, there are some instances where I'd rather watch a woman pee than bang her.

 

[GoodMan32]

Are you talking Golden Showers or just a relationship open enough that they leave the bathroom door open?

I have no desire to give or receive a golden shower.

I just like to watch her pee.

From what I've heard, many a woman leaves the door open while peeing if she's home alone with her man. Therefore even if he's not into watching, he'll inevitably end up catching glimpses if he passes by the bathroom.

I like to take it to the next level and actively be right there watching while she pees.

 

[GoodMan32]

Try like hell to not "graduate" from watching women pee to regularly LARPing as Ed Gein, OP. "I couldn't drop my fetish" isn't a viable defense at a criminal trial

I'm aware "I couldn't drop my fetish" isn't a viable defense. I would never, for example, follow a woman into the ladies room (or set up a camera) to watch her pee.

 

[GoodMan32]

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There's a reason I've only "thought of" it (and never followed through)

 

[GoodMan32]

If that is all, you don't need to fetishise this. When women feel safe around you (and they don't know how much this bodily function arouses you), they will most likely keep on talking while visiting the toilet because they want to get their point across.
Just get yourself a talkative woman and ply her with enough drinks that she will have to use the toilet, then start a conversation when she's ready to visit the porcelain throne.

I appreciate your encouragement (I genuinely do).

But wouldn't she notice I'm going out of my way to get a view of her pee stream? That would be a tip off to the fact it arouses me.

The typical man doesn't check out her pee stream if he's talking to her while she's peeing.

 

[Clockwerk50]

If that is all, you don't need to fetishise this. When women feel safe around you (and they don't know how much this bodily function arouses you), they will most likely keep on talking while visiting the toilet because they want to get their point across.
Just get yourself a talkative woman and ply her with enough drinks that she will have to use the toilet, then start a conversation when she's ready to visit the porcelain throne.

Do as I say, not as I do. You’re really good at ignoring him. /s

 

[BPH]

Yeah, I'm done replying to this crap. Please don't let this garbage become another 10-page thread of nothingness.

 

[BaronOfHair]

The typical man doesn't check out her pee stream if he's talking to her while she's peeing.

More than a hint that you shouldn't be doing so either

 

[BaronOfHair]

I would never, for example, follow a woman into the ladies room (or set up a camera) to watch her pee.

Have you considered not simply boning trannies, but BECOMING trans yourself, GM? Joining women whilst their in the(public) crapper will then be default

 

[GoodMan32]

More than a hint that you shouldn't be doing so either

More of a hint that the typical man lacks my fetish.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I'm not feeding the droll, no matter how much he thinks I'm encouraging him. I'm getting him to say what he wanted to say, and now he knows how to get to see them. He probably won't be able to take action, but now that he knows what to do, there's no more need for this cringe thread, so the mods can close it and refer him to this thread whenever he thinks he should be talking about watching women pee again.

Holy DEER!

Engaging with him only reinforces his behaviour, fuels the fire, and gives him the attention he wants; when his threads get zero comments, he’ll stop this nonsense, so it would be more effective to ignore him instead.

I doubt it will ever happen since people’s impulses will get the better of them and they’ll just hit reply.

 

[BaronOfHair]

More of a hint that the typical man lacks my fetish.

Yeah, because it drives away not just women, but most people in general

 

[GoodMan32]

Yeah, because it drives away not just women, but most people in general

My fetish is such a harmless fetish, I'm better off without anyone who hates me for my fetish (one good thing about having ASD: we're content with isolation)

At the kinkster brunch I attended this summer, one of the attendees said he likes to bruise a woman's melons. Another attendee said she likes to get tied up. Another attendee said he likes his mouth to get used as a toilet.

Watching a woman pee is way milder than any of those fetishes.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Another attendee said she likes to get tied up

Which was already pretty damned vanilla, even before 50SOG

 

[GoodMan32]

Which was already pretty damned vanilla, even before 50SOG

I've always found the tying up fetish freaky (and dangerous). The other party could murder you while you're helplessly tied up.

Watching a woman pee, on the other hand, now that's vanilla.

 

[Serenity]

This thread is unproductive and it seems the majority has had enough of this topic.

Thread locked.