My ex was an alcoholic. Even when she said she quit, she would get drunk when I wasn’t there. Then she lied about it. I would find half empty vodka bottles in her freezer and she would make some BS up. Then she lied some more. Pretty soon I didn’t know what to believe and couldn’t trust her. You’re also not a trained psychologist who can help her. You will try though and get frustrated. This is the path you will end up walking.
My ex was an alcoholic. Even when she said she quit, she would get drunk when I wasn’t there. Then she lied about it. I would find half empty vodka bottles in her freezer and she would make some BS up. Then she lied some more. Pretty soon I didn’t know what to believe and couldn’t trust her. You’re also not a trained psychologist who can help her. You will try though and get frustrated. This is the path you will end up walking.
Everyone always thinks their situation will be different. Until they realize it isn't after it's too late.
No court ruling. It' a complicated situation. Im not gonna go into any more details.
So no family court is involved, or a case is ongoing, and your thread title starts with:
In between a married couples battle …
She needs an attorney and you need maximum distance from getting involved in a situation like this.
With alcoholism involved, you’ve got a bomb with a very short fuse on your hands…
Why i ask in bold in my OP is because she is hinting at going to see her son, she thinks the husband will get very angry and she is scared of him (although she is embarrased to admit to it) I was just after some advice from posters who have been in a similar position. I told her that i will go with her so her husband cannot hurt her.
Appreciate the reply man. You are the first person that has actually answered my question.
i will see how this plays out.
Never interject yourself in situations like this. Never.
That's what the police are for. If she is scared have the police come with her. You stay out of
it or you will soon regret it.
But I know...you got this right? You are going to "be there for her" right?
You clearly are seeing what you want to see. I feel bad for you. You don't even know how simpish your behavior really is to be able to change it.
She is an alcoholic. She is still married. Her son lives with her husband and his new girlfriend.
It's too bad that she's still married. Otherwise, I would have advised you to put a ring on her finger immediately. She sounds like a keeper.
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His handle is Rainman.... I am hoping this post was one huge troll on this forum. Single mom... alcoholic.... and a guy looking for advice on how to navigate a ridiculous custody situation.
If this post is legit you navigate one way.... you do what Tiger woods did. You tell her your going on vacation... have an Uber pick her up... and then when she’s gone change the locks... change your number, and pretend this never happened
His handle is Rainman.... I am hoping this post was one huge troll on this forum. Single mom... alcoholic.... and a guy looking for advice on how to navigate a ridiculous custody situation.
If this post is legit you navigate one way.... you do what Tiger woods did. You tell her your going on vacation... have an Uber pick her up... and then when she’s gone change the locks... change your number, and pretend this never happened
Then get sued for $30 mil
I looked up to past posts from you with some regard and seeing this is really some hustling backwards type of sh1t from your part.
I’m saying this in good faith.
If she smoked some flower here and there ok cool but a habitual alky is just not on par with a high value man who is constantly thriving in this fvcked up world.
Now a days I rather have my peace of mind undisturbed and in tact even if means losing a woman.
May your intuition and grit guide you to see the light because you will need it.
