i'm in a great ltr with an amazing girl but especially during the summer when she's away I keep thinking of how I could be having fun flirty encounters with girls left and right (not to mention fun sex with girls I know who are into that lighthearted summer fling type of thing). it doesn't help that being in a ltr means that she tells you every time she overhears that some mutual friend babe totally thinks i'm sexy. i don't know if i'm asking for advice or not, just venting lol. maybe it's the sexual frustration.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
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in a ltr but i can do so much more than that
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Its a good idea to game girls while in a ltr, even if not cheating. It reminds you that she aint the only one, and helps you maintain more control of your manhood, as well as keeping your game tight in case it doesnt work out. Besides, if you're spending summers apart, its a good chance that one or both of you will have a casual fling or two. Dont ask, dont tell. you're both human.
hmm i getcha horaholic but the problem is these girls I flirt with are mutual friends or are connected to her in some way... so its like i can't really get away with it. i think what i'm going to do is chill out til summer ends, think about the relationship for a couple months when she's back, and if i'm still tempted by all kinds of girls, split it off.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.