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In a dating funk...keep getting first date rejections...unsure what is going on

zinc4

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That's the part that gets me confused is that I AM having regular sex, so it's not like I am desperate for it.

Imo it benefits a lot more if you are having regular sex with someone you are super into sexually.

If you are banging a few women who you are kind of attracted to then doesn't really matter.
 

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OP not sure if you've played sports, but it sounds like you're in a slump and might be pressing too much or trying too hard. The girl will sense it.

Also if your confidence is off, do what you need to do to fix that. Like rollo says, a man's confidence to a woman is like a nice pair of tits to a man.
 

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OP not sure if you've played sports, but it sounds like you're in a slump and might be pressing too much or trying too hard. The girl will sense it.

Also if your confidence is off, do what you need to do to fix that. Like rollo says, a man's confidence to a woman is like a nice pair of tits to a man.
Played sports my whole life into my late 20s.

I agree but I think the last date I was on point. Going to see what happens.
 
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