spider_007
Master Don Juan
Im suprised your even alowed to edit a poll.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm Tired
- Thread starter Giovanni Casanova
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thecraftylefty
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 20, 2001
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- 417
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- 7
Oh, I'm not complaining. Complaining is what women do. I just pointed out some facts.
But seriously man, you could have gone out on a good note, but I think your ego got the best of you this time. We're all big strong men here on the internet. Best of luck.
thecraftylefty
But seriously man, you could have gone out on a good note, but I think your ego got the best of you this time. We're all big strong men here on the internet. Best of luck.
thecraftylefty
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Just leaving to save the embarassment of being de-modded. Goodbye, won't miss your unfunny, sarcastic remarks.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Regulators...
Mount up.
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Mount up.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
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- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
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- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Haven't you heard? Allen is in on the big moderator conspiracy too. I wouldn't have been de-modded until the very end, because our Ultimate Master Plan was to ban everybody on the site one by one for no good reason at all.
I know, because I'll keep making my unfunny, sarcastic remarks.
The only noticable differences are as follows:
- I won't have to put up with your bullsh*t about how I'm supposed to be "setting an example".
- I won't have to wade through email after email about how this guy pulled this girl's hair on the playground and now she wants him banned and vice versa.
- I won't have to spend an hour deleting posts from some guy who wants everybody to click this link for a free Ipod or a guy who thinks that hispanics and Jews should be lined up against a wall and shot some other such bullsh*t only to be rewarded with the incessant b*tching from a handful of f*cktards.
But as for my unfunny sarcastic remarks, they'll probably double or triple because I'll have more time on my hands now.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: I'm Tired
No, actually, he did get you on that one.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
That's what moderators do, put up with the idiocy of the community. It's just the name of the job, and I understand why you're stepping down.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
welcome to the regular posters part of the forum. Where no one at all will give a sh!t about your posts. I will be your guide Comic_Relief. . .
penkitten
Master Don Juan
well somebody had to say it...
ten points comic!
DreamyChick
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2002
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- 544
- Reaction score
- 1
Man for a forum that's supposedly for MEN there sure is a LOT of DRAMA Going Down. Since when did Don Juans become the wussy weaker sex? This is not attractive at all boys. Grow up.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
:cheer: Gio rocks, Gio rocks! :cheer:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DrBeard
Banned
What's Pabst Blue Ribbon?
I agree.Originally posted by DreamyChick
Man for a forum that's supposedly for MEN there sure is a LOT of DRAMA Going Down. Since when did Don Juans become the wussy weaker sex? This is not attractive at all boys. Grow up.
There are too many goddamn pussies here. It's fine to have plenty of pussies here, but the problem is, the pussies are the ones giving information to other pussies, so nothing actually gets accomplished.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Oh....touched a nerve.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I'll look forward to not reading them.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
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- 5,550
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- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
You've shown time and again that you just can't help yourself.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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