"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm Tired

My parting message for Gio is...

  • Gio, you're so damn cool!

    Votes: 11 37.9%
  • Gio, you rock like nobody's business.

    Votes: 5 17.2%
  • Actually, I LIKE menstrual blood on my face...

    Votes: 13 44.8%

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thecraftylefty

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Oh, I'm not complaining. Complaining is what women do. I just pointed out some facts.

But seriously man, you could have gone out on a good note, but I think your ego got the best of you this time. We're all big strong men here on the internet. Best of luck.


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Vincent

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Well Gio, you were a great and funny mod. Please stick around being a great and funny poster.

Also: Just because he's stepping down does not mean we need another moderator. Don't f*cking post about it
 

WesCottII

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Just leaving to save the embarassment of being de-modded. Goodbye, won't miss your unfunny, sarcastic remarks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by WesCottII
Just leaving to save the embarassment of being de-modded.
Haven't you heard? Allen is in on the big moderator conspiracy too. I wouldn't have been de-modded until the very end, because our Ultimate Master Plan was to ban everybody on the site one by one for no good reason at all.

Goodbye, won't miss your unfunny, sarcastic remarks.
I know, because I'll keep making my unfunny, sarcastic remarks.

The only noticable differences are as follows:

- I won't have to put up with your bullsh*t about how I'm supposed to be "setting an example".

- I won't have to wade through email after email about how this guy pulled this girl's hair on the playground and now she wants him banned and vice versa.

- I won't have to spend an hour deleting posts from some guy who wants everybody to click this link for a free Ipod or a guy who thinks that hispanics and Jews should be lined up against a wall and shot some other such bullsh*t only to be rewarded with the incessant b*tching from a handful of f*cktards.

But as for my unfunny sarcastic remarks, they'll probably double or triple because I'll have more time on my hands now.
 

Wonderbread166

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Re: Re: Re: I'm Tired

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Hey, that's pretty clever and I just never in a million years saw that comment coming. But you'll notice that I'm referring to the people "whose whole existance and energy" is devoted to b*tching "day after day after day". So, no that's not me. Thanks for playing, though. I'm sure someone will give you a nice consolation prize at the door. Maybe the home version of the game or something.
No, actually, he did get you on that one.
 

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That's what moderators do, put up with the idiocy of the community. It's just the name of the job, and I understand why you're stepping down.
 

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Originally posted by WesCottII
Just leaving to save the embarassment of being de-modded.
Thank you moderator WesCottII for sharing the information of the super secret moderators corner which only moderators know of what the going on is on this moderated forum.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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comic_relief

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welcome to the regular posters part of the forum. Where no one at all will give a sh!t about your posts. I will be your guide Comic_Relief. . .
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by comic_relief
welcome to the regular posters part of the forum. Where no one at all will give a sh!t about your posts. I will be your guide Comic_Relief. . .
well somebody had to say it...
ten points comic!
 

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Man for a forum that's supposedly for MEN there sure is a LOT of DRAMA Going Down. Since when did Don Juans become the wussy weaker sex? This is not attractive at all boys. Grow up.:down:
 

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Fix the drama. You're a chick. You know all about drama. Let me know when you have the drama fixed and I'll give you a prize.;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blong1068

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Originally posted by DreamyChick
Man for a forum that's supposedly for MEN there sure is a LOT of DRAMA Going Down. Since when did Don Juans become the wussy weaker sex? This is not attractive at all boys. Grow up.:down:
I agree.

There are too many goddamn pussies here. It's fine to have plenty of pussies here, but the problem is, the pussies are the ones giving information to other pussies, so nothing actually gets accomplished.
 

WesCottII

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Originally posted by Vincent
Thank you moderator WesCottII for sharing the information of the super secret moderators corner which only moderators know of what the going on is on this moderated forum.
Oh....touched a nerve.
 

WesCottII

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova

But as for my unfunny sarcastic remarks, they'll probably double or triple because I'll have more time on my hands now. [/B]
I'll look forward to not reading them.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by WesCottII
I'll look forward to not reading them.
You've shown time and again that you just can't help yourself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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