"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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im tired of being goodlookin

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All these women label me as a playa!
Day think im gon na pla yz them all da time. Im just tired of bein good lookin. i tink it hurst sometimes to be goodlookin

doez anyone else feel da same?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Look up ebay and buy yourself some acid...disfigure your face.Hopefully no one will bother you then and label you as a playa....they may call you crazy freak man.
 
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Originally posted by cumfiesta
All these women label me as a playa!
Day think im gon na pla yz them all da time. Im just tired of bein good lookin. i tink it hurst sometimes to be goodlookin

doez anyone else feel da same?
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Welcome to America, now SPEAK ENGLISH
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Welcome to America, now SPEAK ENGLISH
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THANK YOU! :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You either just trolling if not then why are you here?
 
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If you are labelled a "playa" it's probably your attitude, not your looks. I've never heard Brad Pitt or David Beckham referred to as "playas" and I've never heard them say it "hurst" them either.

Besides, when a woman tells me I'm good looking, it's nice to hear. If every woman I ever met told me the same thing I doubt I'd complain.
 
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Day think im gon na pla yz them all da time.
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HAHA i cant believe i just understood that. I looked at it a second time and im like that is the worst grammer ever.
 
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kill yourself
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
If you are labelled a "playa" it's probably your attitude, not your looks. I've never heard Brad Pitt or David Beckham referred to as "playas" and I've never heard them say it "hurst" them either.

Besides, when a woman tells me I'm good looking, it's nice to hear. If every woman I ever met told me the same thing I doubt I'd complain.
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Normally goodlooking people with a certain attitude is labeled players and I've had several girls tell me that to be a player you normally have to be good looking and I do agree.
 
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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Normally goodlooking people with a certain attitude is labeled players and I've had several girls tell me that to be a player you normally have to be good looking and I do agree.
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LOL, well, you dont necessarily have to be good looking to be a player.

but yes, there hae been times in the past ppl thought i was a player and were boggled their minds even more when i said i didnt have a gf. my bro's friend a yr ago even asked if i was a player....i just went wtf.

i think it's just a stereotype. they think "wow he/she is so good looking, they can probably get anyone they want" or "wow he/she is so good looking, i bet guys/girls throw themselves at them."

this is true, dont anyone tell me that that htought has never crossed your mind before!!

look at jesse palmer from The Bachelor, if he had a gf or was a player, he wouldnt be on that show looking for a gf/wife.
 
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