You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Welcome to America, now SPEAK ENGLISHOriginally posted by cumfiesta
All these women label me as a playa!
Day think im gon na pla yz them all da time. Im just tired of bein good lookin. i tink it hurst sometimes to be goodlookin
doez anyone else feel da same?
THANK YOU!Originally posted by MetalFortress
Welcome to America, now SPEAK ENGLISH
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
HAHA i cant believe i just understood that. I looked at it a second time and im like that is the worst grammer ever.Day think im gon na pla yz them all da time.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Normally goodlooking people with a certain attitude is labeled players and I've had several girls tell me that to be a player you normally have to be good looking and I do agree.Originally posted by Dirtheart
If you are labelled a "playa" it's probably your attitude, not your looks. I've never heard Brad Pitt or David Beckham referred to as "playas" and I've never heard them say it "hurst" them either.
Besides, when a woman tells me I'm good looking, it's nice to hear. If every woman I ever met told me the same thing I doubt I'd complain.
LOL, well, you dont necessarily have to be good looking to be a player.Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Normally goodlooking people with a certain attitude is labeled players and I've had several girls tell me that to be a player you normally have to be good looking and I do agree.