"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
im tired of being goodlookin
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MetalFortress
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Welcome to America, now SPEAK ENGLISH
WaterTiger
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THANK YOU!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hollowpoint
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Besides, when a woman tells me I'm good looking, it's nice to hear. If every woman I ever met told me the same thing I doubt I'd complain.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kineti[C]harm
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Normally goodlooking people with a certain attitude is labeled players and I've had several girls tell me that to be a player you normally have to be good looking and I do agree.
LOL, well, you dont necessarily have to be good looking to be a player.
but yes, there hae been times in the past ppl thought i was a player and were boggled their minds even more when i said i didnt have a gf. my bro's friend a yr ago even asked if i was a player....i just went wtf.
i think it's just a stereotype. they think "wow he/she is so good looking, they can probably get anyone they want" or "wow he/she is so good looking, i bet guys/girls throw themselves at them."
this is true, dont anyone tell me that that htought has never crossed your mind before!!
look at jesse palmer from The Bachelor, if he had a gf or was a player, he wouldnt be on that show looking for a gf/wife.
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