I need a punch in the face. Well what I really need is a kick in the balls. I have been studying the way of the DJ for quite awhile now and I know what to do and how to do it. The only thing is I stay at home all fecking day on sit on my ass all day. When I am out, I will see women and I know what to say, but I don't do anything and I go home and kick myself coz I didn't do anything. I won't get out of the house and do anything, I just make excuses to not meet women. I'm too damn lazy and too negative. What the hell can I do?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm sick of my bull****
- Thread starter noirsake
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
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Street_Fighter
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it sounds like you are expecting waaay too much..how can I tell?
because you're over reacting...
just a little
because you're over reacting...
just a little
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
stop whining
you only live once...
you only live once...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Street_Fighter
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than go approach
feelingloved
Don Juan
baby steps. like a cheetah, look for the sick baby gazelle.
go for the environment that makes it easy. Look for that first easy step.
go for the environment that makes it easy. Look for that first easy step.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
dont make a plan just do it when you think about what to do you unconsciously putting pressure on yourself and you get really afraid of rejection because you planned it. There is no right thing to say to a girl buddy just go their and and show her you have a ****
Crazy Asian
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FIRST
try talking to random strangers everywhere you go, then u'll have more experience as to wut to talk about.
then try talking to girls with the intention to attract
then the hot girls
try talking to random strangers everywhere you go, then u'll have more experience as to wut to talk about.
then try talking to girls with the intention to attract
then the hot girls
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Crazy Asian said:
QFT! Throw yourself into the fire. Don't fvcking think, just do it. Yes, you'll mess up. Trust me it doesn't matter. Just remember this is practice. Always keep that in mind. The next time you feel the opportunity, make the move...one at a time.
Wait whats that? You did? But you failed!!?? Guess what....that moment in time where you messed up just flew into the nothingness of infinity. No one will remember what even happened....so what have you got to lose?
drummer
Senior Don Juan
And you learn from those mistakes.. just making yourself better for the next time.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Try a club
build up that thick skin
build up that thick skin
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.