I need a punch in the face. Well what I really need is a kick in the balls. I have been studying the way of the DJ for quite awhile now and I know what to do and how to do it. The only thing is I stay at home all fecking day on sit on my ass all day. When I am out, I will see women and I know what to say, but I don't do anything and I go home and kick myself coz I didn't do anything. I won't get out of the house and do anything, I just make excuses to not meet women. I'm too damn lazy and too negative. What the hell can I do?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm sick of my bull****
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
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Street_Fighter
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it sounds like you are expecting waaay too much..how can I tell?
because you're over reacting...
just a little
because you're over reacting...
just a little
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
stop whining
you only live once...
you only live once...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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than go approach
feelingloved
Don Juan
baby steps. like a cheetah, look for the sick baby gazelle.
go for the environment that makes it easy. Look for that first easy step.
go for the environment that makes it easy. Look for that first easy step.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
dont make a plan just do it when you think about what to do you unconsciously putting pressure on yourself and you get really afraid of rejection because you planned it. There is no right thing to say to a girl buddy just go their and and show her you have a ****
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FIRST
try talking to random strangers everywhere you go, then u'll have more experience as to wut to talk about.
then try talking to girls with the intention to attract
then the hot girls
try talking to random strangers everywhere you go, then u'll have more experience as to wut to talk about.
then try talking to girls with the intention to attract
then the hot girls
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Crazy Asian said:
QFT! Throw yourself into the fire. Don't fvcking think, just do it. Yes, you'll mess up. Trust me it doesn't matter. Just remember this is practice. Always keep that in mind. The next time you feel the opportunity, make the move...one at a time.
Wait whats that? You did? But you failed!!?? Guess what....that moment in time where you messed up just flew into the nothingness of infinity. No one will remember what even happened....so what have you got to lose?
drummer
Senior Don Juan
And you learn from those mistakes.. just making yourself better for the next time.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Try a club
build up that thick skin
build up that thick skin
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.