I'm sick of my bull****

[noirsake]

I need a punch in the face. Well what I really need is a kick in the balls. I have been studying the way of the DJ for quite awhile now and I know what to do and how to do it. The only thing is I stay at home all fecking day on sit on my ass all day. When I am out, I will see women and I know what to say, but I don't do anything and I go home and kick myself coz I didn't do anything. I won't get out of the house and do anything, I just make excuses to not meet women. I'm too damn lazy and too negative. What the hell can I do?

 

[backbreaker]

:box:

 

[Street_Fighter]

it sounds like you are expecting waaay too much..how can I tell?

because you're over reacting...


just a little

 

[redspicyflag]

stop whining

you only live once...

 

[noirsake]

im not over reacting. im whining. thank you redspicy. im just upset about not approaching when I know i should.

 

[Street_Fighter]

than go approach

 

[feelingloved]

baby steps. like a cheetah, look for the sick baby gazelle.
go for the environment that makes it easy. Look for that first easy step.

 

[ElStud]

Go up to a woman and say "Hey", that's an approach. Try to stray away from routines.

 

[jtrain 289]

dont make a plan just do it when you think about what to do you unconsciously putting pressure on yourself and you get really afraid of rejection because you planned it. There is no right thing to say to a girl buddy just go their and and show her you have a ****

 

[Crazy Asian]

FIRST
try talking to random strangers everywhere you go, then u'll have more experience as to wut to talk about.

then try talking to girls with the intention to attract
then the hot girls

 

[Jon55]

FIRST
try talking to random strangers everywhere you go, then u'll have more experience as to wut to talk about.

then try talking to girls with the intention to attract
then the hot girls

QFT! Throw yourself into the fire. Don't fvcking think, just do it. Yes, you'll mess up. Trust me it doesn't matter. Just remember this is practice. Always keep that in mind. The next time you feel the opportunity, make the move...one at a time.

Wait whats that? You did? But you failed!!?? Guess what....that moment in time where you messed up just flew into the nothingness of infinity. No one will remember what even happened....so what have you got to lose?

 

[drummer]

And you learn from those mistakes.. just making yourself better for the next time.

 

[redspicyflag]

Try a club
build up that thick skin

 

[Obsidian]

yeah, i do think clubs are somewhat good as a training exercise

 

[Lust]

Creating Motivation and Drive:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122411