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Nah, I just asked for her friends # tonight.
She texted me at 3am 2 nights ago.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm ready to get laid again. Let's see how long it takes.
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Nah, I just asked for her friends # tonight.
She texted me at 3am 2 nights ago.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You should say "sooo...you don't still have your friend's number? ^_~"
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LOL, i'm doing it.
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lol she's not replying!!!
I wonder why?
I wonder why?
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Good job, my friend.
Now sit back and watch it aaaall come crumbling down.
Now sit back and watch it aaaall come crumbling down.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Scratch that.. she just replied
"No"
Not very exciting...
"No"
Not very exciting...
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Psh
"you know what her myspace page ID is?"
That would be just...hateful.
You should do it.
"you know what her myspace page ID is?"
That would be just...hateful.
You should do it.
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i dont know man that's going too far. I'm going to tell her it was a joke. THEN I will ask for the myspace page.. LOL
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My Name is Nobody said:
OMG.. I told her it was a joke and she said
"I will not answer. Do you want to meet with her?"
WTF??
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"WHAT THE F*CK IS YOUR PROBLEM YOU STUPID TW@T!? YOU WOULDN'T KNOW WHAT A JOKE WAS IF IT JUMPED OUT A BUSH AND WENT "OOPS" UPSIDE YOUR MOTHERF*CKING HEAD!!"
Do it.
Do it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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^^^ I'm not saying that. She just texted me again
"I don't like this" What the hell should I say?
She did ask if I wanted to meet her friend...
"I don't like this" What the hell should I say?
She did ask if I wanted to meet her friend...
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"What's not to 'like' you goofy little girl? You don't like GAMES!? Keeps people on their toes, these games. You're hot one minute and then the next you're cold. Listen, are you interested or not. My d!ck is looking for a space to lease and you seem like the best deal out there right now. "
"Don't you like me? WHY DON'T YOU LIKE ME!?"
"Don't you like me? WHY DON'T YOU LIKE ME!?"
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This thread has jumped the shark.
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This is what I sentThunderMaverick said:
"What's not to like girl? You don't like GAMES!? You're hot one minute and then the next you're cold. Listen, are you interested or not?"
LOL...too funny.
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I'd say.Francisco d'Anconia said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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My Name is Nobody said:
Uh..hm.
Dude I didn't...
....it wasn't like I was..
...well.
Did she text back yet?
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ThunderMaverick said:
No.
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Thinking about it...wow that's really funny!! hahahaha:crackup:My Name is Nobody said:
Now she's thinking "what the hell is his problem?! The CREEP!"
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ThunderMaverick said:
I still want her friend though.. think she was serious about meeting up with her?
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ThunderMaverick said:
Good. And I'm thinking, "what a b!tch." I could be completely over reacting, but the way she has been cold, and then the 3am text is making me wonder what fool she is taking me for, or just messing with me. Who the hell knows.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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