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loveequation said:
Nah, I just asked for her friends # tonight.
She texted me at 3am 2 nights ago.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I'm ready to get laid again. Let's see how long it takes.
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Nah, I just asked for her friends # tonight.
She texted me at 3am 2 nights ago.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You should say "sooo...you don't still have your friend's number? ^_~"
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LOL, i'm doing it.
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lol she's not replying!!!
I wonder why?
I wonder why?
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Good job, my friend.
Now sit back and watch it aaaall come crumbling down.
Now sit back and watch it aaaall come crumbling down.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Scratch that.. she just replied
"No"
Not very exciting...
"No"
Not very exciting...
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Psh
"you know what her myspace page ID is?"
That would be just...hateful.
You should do it.
"you know what her myspace page ID is?"
That would be just...hateful.
You should do it.
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i dont know man that's going too far. I'm going to tell her it was a joke. THEN I will ask for the myspace page.. LOL
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My Name is Nobody said:
OMG.. I told her it was a joke and she said
"I will not answer. Do you want to meet with her?"
WTF??
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"WHAT THE F*CK IS YOUR PROBLEM YOU STUPID TW@T!? YOU WOULDN'T KNOW WHAT A JOKE WAS IF IT JUMPED OUT A BUSH AND WENT "OOPS" UPSIDE YOUR MOTHERF*CKING HEAD!!"
Do it.
Do it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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^^^ I'm not saying that. She just texted me again
"I don't like this" What the hell should I say?
She did ask if I wanted to meet her friend...
"I don't like this" What the hell should I say?
She did ask if I wanted to meet her friend...
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"What's not to 'like' you goofy little girl? You don't like GAMES!? Keeps people on their toes, these games. You're hot one minute and then the next you're cold. Listen, are you interested or not. My d!ck is looking for a space to lease and you seem like the best deal out there right now. "
"Don't you like me? WHY DON'T YOU LIKE ME!?"
"Don't you like me? WHY DON'T YOU LIKE ME!?"
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This thread has jumped the shark.
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This is what I sentThunderMaverick said:
"What's not to like girl? You don't like GAMES!? You're hot one minute and then the next you're cold. Listen, are you interested or not?"
LOL...too funny.
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I'd say.Francisco d'Anconia said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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My Name is Nobody said:
Uh..hm.
Dude I didn't...
....it wasn't like I was..
...well.
Did she text back yet?
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ThunderMaverick said:
No.
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Thinking about it...wow that's really funny!! hahahaha:crackup:My Name is Nobody said:
Now she's thinking "what the hell is his problem?! The CREEP!"
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ThunderMaverick said:
I still want her friend though.. think she was serious about meeting up with her?
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ThunderMaverick said:
Good. And I'm thinking, "what a b!tch." I could be completely over reacting, but the way she has been cold, and then the 3am text is making me wonder what fool she is taking me for, or just messing with me. Who the hell knows.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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