“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm going full monk mode.

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Went out with a girl from OKC, turned out to be a whale with a high-horse complex. I ended it promptly and went back home. I'm starting to think OLD is a trash-place for plates and those who agree to dates are either:
1. Looking for a free meal
2. Fvcked up beyond belief

That's it, I'm going full monk mode and do social circle dating instead.
 

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Went out with a girl from OKC, turned out to be a whale with a high-horse complex. I ended it promptly and went back home. I'm starting to think OLD is a trash-place for plates and those who agree to dates are either:
1. Looking for a free meal
2. Fvcked up beyond belief

That's it, I'm going full monk mode and do social circle dating instead.
Describe what full monk mode means to you my good man...

I applaud you decision if it's for the right reasons and with the correct plan
 

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Describe what full monk mode means to you my good man...

I applaud you decision if it's for the right reasons and with the correct plan
Basically I'm going to focus on building my life up - Public speaking, dancing (maybe). My social circles are currently not wide enough for me to be pulling p00n, albeit I have girls who are madly interested in me but they aren't up to my standard appearance wise. I won't settle for less, much less waste my time with broads I have no attraction to. Its kind of the catch 22 where I want to have dating experience but only with the girls I am attracted to. That's the hard part, I believe I can pull the girls I'm attracted to if I get into their social circle.
 

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OLD is for those who want to fvck the fvcked up. You'll get better quality women by meeting people through social circles and acquaintances.
"OLD is for those who want to fvck the fvcked up"

I like that! So true...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Basically I'm going to focus on building my life up - Public speaking, dancing (maybe). My social circles are currently not wide enough for me to be pulling p00n, albeit I have girls who are madly interested in me but they aren't up to my standard appearance wise. I won't settle for less, much less waste my time with broads I have no attraction to. Its kind of the catch 22 where I want to have dating experience but only with the girls I am attracted to. That's the hard part, I believe I can pull the girls I'm attracted to if I get into their social circle.
I hear you. Good idea.

Have you tried Toastmasters? Generally you get people who are interested in personal development, so
possibly a "better caliber" of person. It's opened a few doors for me.

Dansing I'd recommend too. I would say 90% of my social life has come from the people in Salsa and Bachata class. I've two seperate whatsapp groups: one for everyone in the class and a serperate one for a few lads....the rat pack if you will.

If you could stumble across a copy of social circle mastery by love systems.....it's class, talks specifically about social circle game. but even if you didn't want to game in your social circle the tips and tricks it gives for exploding your social circle is really good.

Monk Moke....self improvement too......read.....listen to audios.....the likes of Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn...
 

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I already joined Toastmasters...Going to start on my project in 2 weeks time (I already have my speech prepared) and there after doing a inspiration speech infront of 1200 people on Christmas day. Dancing I may take up latin ballroom, a couple of girls who are into me are dragging me to come join their club.
 

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Good luc
Went out with a girl from OKC, turned out to be a whale with a high-horse complex. I ended it promptly and went back home. I'm starting to think OLD is a trash-place for plates and those who agree to dates are either:
1. Looking for a free meal
2. Fvcked up beyond belief

That's it, I'm going full monk mode and do social circle dating instead.
Good luck. I am almost there myself.
 

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Describe what full monk mode means to you my good man...

I applaud you decision if it's for the right reasons and with the correct plan
It means working on myself only. Forsaking women for the betterment of myself. Working out my mental,physical and game issues.
 
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