"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm fraid of having accounts on social media

Suspens

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hockeyfreak79

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It's actually "affraid" but seriously man if it's giving you anxiety then just delete them.

You don't need them to have a social life and or getting aid or have a gf or whatever it is you are looking for.
 

wifehunter

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backseatjuan

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas.
Recently I post on "pof equivalent" with bunch of hb8 photos. Know what? Had a message - dude is shy of telling what he like in sex. Know what happen to him? Ban.

Draw some lines retard.

Time is 2017, cars will begin flying soon. You gotta have some accounts, especially Instagram. Honestly retard, if you don't have 10+ pics in your pof profile, you're screwed - erhm, retarded.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skyline

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
  • Damn right it is. Women love that sh*t. Who cares if no one likes it it's a picture book of your life.
If you really don't want to take good photos then just pose in front of a Green screen and edit in scenarios. They don't know the difference I promise...
 

MrOctober

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if you have tons of friends it's a good tool. Which I do.
Otherwise I think you could do without it.
 

Suspens

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  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
LOL.
I have seen people regreting to post their photos and selfie sh!t online, however they realzied it was too late and they couldn't do anything to have them removed.

  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
What made you think I am actually posting anything at all? And furthermore, what made you imagine they are questionable? I have seen thousands of fake profiles on instagram using someone else's photos and portraits. Isn't that the definition of impersonation/defamation? Would you feel comfortable if someone did that with your photos?
 
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