"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm fraid of having accounts on social media

Suspens

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hockeyfreak79

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It's actually "affraid" but seriously man if it's giving you anxiety then just delete them.

You don't need them to have a social life and or getting aid or have a gf or whatever it is you are looking for.
 

wifehunter

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backseatjuan

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas.
Recently I post on "pof equivalent" with bunch of hb8 photos. Know what? Had a message - dude is shy of telling what he like in sex. Know what happen to him? Ban.

Draw some lines retard.

Time is 2017, cars will begin flying soon. You gotta have some accounts, especially Instagram. Honestly retard, if you don't have 10+ pics in your pof profile, you're screwed - erhm, retarded.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skyline

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
  • Damn right it is. Women love that sh*t. Who cares if no one likes it it's a picture book of your life.
If you really don't want to take good photos then just pose in front of a Green screen and edit in scenarios. They don't know the difference I promise...
 

MrOctober

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if you have tons of friends it's a good tool. Which I do.
Otherwise I think you could do without it.
 

Suspens

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  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
LOL.
I have seen people regreting to post their photos and selfie sh!t online, however they realzied it was too late and they couldn't do anything to have them removed.

  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
What made you think I am actually posting anything at all? And furthermore, what made you imagine they are questionable? I have seen thousands of fake profiles on instagram using someone else's photos and portraits. Isn't that the definition of impersonation/defamation? Would you feel comfortable if someone did that with your photos?
 
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