"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm fraid of having accounts on social media

Suspens

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

hockeyfreak79

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It's actually "affraid" but seriously man if it's giving you anxiety then just delete them.

You don't need them to have a social life and or getting aid or have a gf or whatever it is you are looking for.
 

wifehunter

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backseatjuan

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas.
Recently I post on "pof equivalent" with bunch of hb8 photos. Know what? Had a message - dude is shy of telling what he like in sex. Know what happen to him? Ban.

Draw some lines retard.

Time is 2017, cars will begin flying soon. You gotta have some accounts, especially Instagram. Honestly retard, if you don't have 10+ pics in your pof profile, you're screwed - erhm, retarded.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skyline

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
  • Damn right it is. Women love that sh*t. Who cares if no one likes it it's a picture book of your life.
If you really don't want to take good photos then just pose in front of a Green screen and edit in scenarios. They don't know the difference I promise...
 

MrOctober

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if you have tons of friends it's a good tool. Which I do.
Otherwise I think you could do without it.
 

Suspens

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  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
LOL.
I have seen people regreting to post their photos and selfie sh!t online, however they realzied it was too late and they couldn't do anything to have them removed.

  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
What made you think I am actually posting anything at all? And furthermore, what made you imagine they are questionable? I have seen thousands of fake profiles on instagram using someone else's photos and portraits. Isn't that the definition of impersonation/defamation? Would you feel comfortable if someone did that with your photos?
 
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