"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm fraid of having accounts on social media

Suspens

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hockeyfreak79

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It's actually "affraid" but seriously man if it's giving you anxiety then just delete them.

You don't need them to have a social life and or getting aid or have a gf or whatever it is you are looking for.
 

wifehunter

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backseatjuan

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas.
Recently I post on "pof equivalent" with bunch of hb8 photos. Know what? Had a message - dude is shy of telling what he like in sex. Know what happen to him? Ban.

Draw some lines retard.

Time is 2017, cars will begin flying soon. You gotta have some accounts, especially Instagram. Honestly retard, if you don't have 10+ pics in your pof profile, you're screwed - erhm, retarded.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Skyline

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I think this is hurting my life in all areas. The following thoughts and rationalizations are what stop me from creating profile on services such as Instagram, Facebook etc;

  • Once you post your photos on the internet, it is archived till eternity and will be accessible to anyone.
  • What if some douchebag use my photo for defamation purposes?
  • Posting selfies is all about getting attention and validation. As a man, why should I seek attention via such channels? And what If no one liked my photos anyway?!

I need help getting rid of this stupidity and weakness
  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
  • Damn right it is. Women love that sh*t. Who cares if no one likes it it's a picture book of your life.
If you really don't want to take good photos then just pose in front of a Green screen and edit in scenarios. They don't know the difference I promise...
 

MrOctober

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if you have tons of friends it's a good tool. Which I do.
Otherwise I think you could do without it.
 

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  • Unless it's youe snorting cocaine off of a hookers ass or you or robbing someome... I don't think it matters...
LOL.
I have seen people regreting to post their photos and selfie sh!t online, however they realzied it was too late and they couldn't do anything to have them removed.

  • Again, what are you posting that's questionable?
What made you think I am actually posting anything at all? And furthermore, what made you imagine they are questionable? I have seen thousands of fake profiles on instagram using someone else's photos and portraits. Isn't that the definition of impersonation/defamation? Would you feel comfortable if someone did that with your photos?
 
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