I'm dating a virgin

[Trapmaster]

I'm going out with this Russian virgin and I want her to give it up. How can I get her to give up the booty?

 

[Cinamon]

U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.

 

[Trapmaster]

U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.

Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?

 

[prairiedog24]

Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?

By being a better person?

I'm def not one of those guys to blame a girl "loosing it" on the guy, it's her choice too, but if you both want it and she trusts you, then it'll happen. Don't be unnecessarily pushing her into something that could be a big ***king deal to a girl, i.e., pregnancy, abortion, stds, emotional involvement, etc or that just makes you a creep.

I suspect that she knows deep down that you're less into her (other than her body) than she is into you, and it's bothering her.

I mean, you joined this forum to ask us this. If I'm wrong, then chances are you have no problem, and it's just apprehension. But unless she's genuinely concerned, sex drive will beat apprehension every time in the long run.

I think this advice is especially true with the Eastern European chicks. I know, because I have one too. They're generally more traditional at heart, even if they're slutty on the outside. Take care of her and chances are she'll give you a lot less crap than most American girlfriends. Obviously generalizing can be wrong 49% of the time, but the odds are in my favor.

 

[scrouds]

Spin other plates.

That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.

Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.


What ages are we talking about?

 

[Ganondorf]

Take it from her (which is an ugly term by the way) just by being patient and making her more comfortable with you. don't try an force her into something she's not sure about. be gentle and reassuring

this is a big thing for her

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

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[Trapmaster]

She ignored my texts and when I called her last night. I think this is disrespectful because she is ignoring me for no reason.

Should I just end it with her?