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I'm going out with this Russian virgin and I want her to give it up. How can I get her to give up the booty?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm dating a virgin
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
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Cinamon said:U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
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By being a better person?Trapmaster said:Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
I'm def not one of those guys to blame a girl "loosing it" on the guy, it's her choice too, but if you both want it and she trusts you, then it'll happen. Don't be unnecessarily pushing her into something that could be a big ***king deal to a girl, i.e., pregnancy, abortion, stds, emotional involvement, etc or that just makes you a creep.
I suspect that she knows deep down that you're less into her (other than her body) than she is into you, and it's bothering her.
I mean, you joined this forum to ask us this. If I'm wrong, then chances are you have no problem, and it's just apprehension. But unless she's genuinely concerned, sex drive will beat apprehension every time in the long run.
I think this advice is especially true with the Eastern European chicks. I know, because I have one too. They're generally more traditional at heart, even if they're slutty on the outside. Take care of her and chances are she'll give you a lot less crap than most American girlfriends. Obviously generalizing can be wrong 49% of the time, but the odds are in my favor.
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Spin other plates.
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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She ignored my texts and when I called her last night. I think this is disrespectful because she is ignoring me for no reason.
Should I just end it with her?
Should I just end it with her?