"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm dating a virgin

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I'm going out with this Russian virgin and I want her to give it up. How can I get her to give up the booty?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
 

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Cinamon said:
U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.

Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
 

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Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
By being a better person?

I'm def not one of those guys to blame a girl "loosing it" on the guy, it's her choice too, but if you both want it and she trusts you, then it'll happen. Don't be unnecessarily pushing her into something that could be a big ***king deal to a girl, i.e., pregnancy, abortion, stds, emotional involvement, etc or that just makes you a creep.

I suspect that she knows deep down that you're less into her (other than her body) than she is into you, and it's bothering her.

I mean, you joined this forum to ask us this. If I'm wrong, then chances are you have no problem, and it's just apprehension. But unless she's genuinely concerned, sex drive will beat apprehension every time in the long run.

I think this advice is especially true with the Eastern European chicks. I know, because I have one too. They're generally more traditional at heart, even if they're slutty on the outside. Take care of her and chances are she'll give you a lot less crap than most American girlfriends. Obviously generalizing can be wrong 49% of the time, but the odds are in my favor.
 

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Spin other plates.

That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.

Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.


What ages are we talking about?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Take it from her (which is an ugly term by the way) just by being patient and making her more comfortable with you. don't try an force her into something she's not sure about. be gentle and reassuring

this is a big thing for her
 

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She ignored my texts and when I called her last night. I think this is disrespectful because she is ignoring me for no reason.

Should I just end it with her?
 
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