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I'm going out with this Russian virgin and I want her to give it up. How can I get her to give up the booty?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm dating a virgin
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
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Cinamon said:U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
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By being a better person?Trapmaster said:Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
I'm def not one of those guys to blame a girl "loosing it" on the guy, it's her choice too, but if you both want it and she trusts you, then it'll happen. Don't be unnecessarily pushing her into something that could be a big ***king deal to a girl, i.e., pregnancy, abortion, stds, emotional involvement, etc or that just makes you a creep.
I suspect that she knows deep down that you're less into her (other than her body) than she is into you, and it's bothering her.
I mean, you joined this forum to ask us this. If I'm wrong, then chances are you have no problem, and it's just apprehension. But unless she's genuinely concerned, sex drive will beat apprehension every time in the long run.
I think this advice is especially true with the Eastern European chicks. I know, because I have one too. They're generally more traditional at heart, even if they're slutty on the outside. Take care of her and chances are she'll give you a lot less crap than most American girlfriends. Obviously generalizing can be wrong 49% of the time, but the odds are in my favor.
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Spin other plates.
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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She ignored my texts and when I called her last night. I think this is disrespectful because she is ignoring me for no reason.
Should I just end it with her?
Should I just end it with her?