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I'm going out with this Russian virgin and I want her to give it up. How can I get her to give up the booty?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm dating a virgin
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
Trapmaster
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Cinamon said:U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
prairiedog24
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By being a better person?Trapmaster said:Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
I'm def not one of those guys to blame a girl "loosing it" on the guy, it's her choice too, but if you both want it and she trusts you, then it'll happen. Don't be unnecessarily pushing her into something that could be a big ***king deal to a girl, i.e., pregnancy, abortion, stds, emotional involvement, etc or that just makes you a creep.
I suspect that she knows deep down that you're less into her (other than her body) than she is into you, and it's bothering her.
I mean, you joined this forum to ask us this. If I'm wrong, then chances are you have no problem, and it's just apprehension. But unless she's genuinely concerned, sex drive will beat apprehension every time in the long run.
I think this advice is especially true with the Eastern European chicks. I know, because I have one too. They're generally more traditional at heart, even if they're slutty on the outside. Take care of her and chances are she'll give you a lot less crap than most American girlfriends. Obviously generalizing can be wrong 49% of the time, but the odds are in my favor.
scrouds
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Spin other plates.
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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She ignored my texts and when I called her last night. I think this is disrespectful because she is ignoring me for no reason.
Should I just end it with her?
Should I just end it with her?