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I'm going out with this Russian virgin and I want her to give it up. How can I get her to give up the booty?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm dating a virgin
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
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Cinamon said:U obviously need to make her comfortable in ur presence and make her want it. Give her loads bout wantin her to do it when she is ready but saying u r ready. That way u r indirectly sort of pressurising her n she thinks u r great.
Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
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By being a better person?Trapmaster said:Shes younger than me... we talked about sex and we were going to but she started crying. How can I make her feel better?
I'm def not one of those guys to blame a girl "loosing it" on the guy, it's her choice too, but if you both want it and she trusts you, then it'll happen. Don't be unnecessarily pushing her into something that could be a big ***king deal to a girl, i.e., pregnancy, abortion, stds, emotional involvement, etc or that just makes you a creep.
I suspect that she knows deep down that you're less into her (other than her body) than she is into you, and it's bothering her.
I mean, you joined this forum to ask us this. If I'm wrong, then chances are you have no problem, and it's just apprehension. But unless she's genuinely concerned, sex drive will beat apprehension every time in the long run.
I think this advice is especially true with the Eastern European chicks. I know, because I have one too. They're generally more traditional at heart, even if they're slutty on the outside. Take care of her and chances are she'll give you a lot less crap than most American girlfriends. Obviously generalizing can be wrong 49% of the time, but the odds are in my favor.
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Spin other plates.
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
That way when she blue balls you for the 11th time, you can just take it in stride.
Otherwise hold her, and tell her she's special, and ****ing mean it too. Be prepared to wait. Make it known that you want it, but that its only when she's ready.
What ages are we talking about?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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She ignored my texts and when I called her last night. I think this is disrespectful because she is ignoring me for no reason.
Should I just end it with her?
Should I just end it with her?