“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm confused, really mixed signals.

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Um dude, to be honest. I'm never going to drink. My parents don't and i don't see the point in it. I would rather stick with coke or something. Just sayingggg
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jokerlsk said:
Um dude, to be honest. I'm never going to drink. My parents don't and i don't see the point in it. I would rather stick with coke or something. Just sayingggg
I like to bet on that...

Anyhow, typical thats the only part you tried to understand...:down:
 

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Jokerlsk said:
No, I understood all of it.
good, well I hope you got something out of it, keep us updated on how things went

good luck champ
 

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Thanks man! I think i'm nexting this chick to be honest. She has too many problems that i don't wanna have to deal with. She doesn't believe in herself at all. She doesn't have any goals or dreams. it's all just astonishing. I feel like if we dated she would get the impression that i could fix her, and i can't.

We were talking about this subject actually, and she asked, "You have it all figured out don't you?" and I said, "Whoah, whatcha talking about?" and she said, "Just the way you carry yourself. It's like you've got life all figured out. " and i said, "I like to think I do, but I don't have all the answers." and she replied with, "Seems like you do :p"

I just stopped texting after that. I don't understand why I attract so many people with problems. Broken people come to me and expect me to fix them but i can't. It makes me feel even worse too.

This girl is not worth it, and i'm just going to delete her number probably. She can contact me if she wants
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Funny how things go in life, first you want something and after you gotten it you couldn't care less.
It's kinda cynical actually... Something which has incredible value, as if its unreachable, loses all its value once obtained.
Sometimes you have to realise though, that you actually did stumble upon something with true value. Anyhow that's up to you to decide when something is really worth the effort.

That being said, i want to add: good job, the girl's pedastal is completly smashed :up:. That's a big step, congrats
 

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Jokerlsk said:
We were talking about this subject actually, and she asked, "You have it all figured out don't you?" and I said, "Whoah, whatcha talking about?" and she said, "Just the way you carry yourself. It's like you've got life all figured out. " and i said, "I like to think I do, but I don't have all the answers." and she replied with, "Seems like you do :p"

I've seen girls try to play this game before when I was in high school. They act dumb, worthless, ect, because they think that's what we want ... Someone who is subordinate, inferior (intellectually, socially, whatever) and some guys do want that. She is trying to build you up and show you how amazing she thinks you are and blah blah.. You gotta test it for yourself to see if that is how she really sees herself or if she's just playing the part. If she is for real, then I suggest you run.


"Take a hint"
She's telling you to take the hints she's giving you. Marrying you on facebook? Come on! I didn't see this is as a curveball; it's a green light.

As far as taking her out with your friends, sure, she might have a good time (you'll be risking the possibility that she will see you as only a friend in the future), but taking her out on a one on one date will make you boyfriend material in her eyes, if you aren't already.
 

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The thing is, is that i think i am a cynical, sadistic person. I dont take things like rejection personal anymore. i don't really take anything personal anymore. It's all like a game. Once I get what I want it's like I don't want it anymore and I'm off to face the next challenge. I've never been able to have a relationship because i lose interest right after they reciprocate it.

I've always been that way with everything. I can't stick with anything. It's weird, and I don't know why. maybe it's my way of handling things.... But you're right Credos. You really made me think about who I am and what I want
 
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