"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm confused, really mixed signals.
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
We were talking about this subject actually, and she asked, "You have it all figured out don't you?" and I said, "Whoah, whatcha talking about?" and she said, "Just the way you carry yourself. It's like you've got life all figured out. " and i said, "I like to think I do, but I don't have all the answers." and she replied with, "Seems like you do
" I just stopped texting after that. I don't understand why I attract so many people with problems. Broken people come to me and expect me to fix them but i can't. It makes me feel even worse too.
This girl is not worth it, and i'm just going to delete her number probably. She can contact me if she wants
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's kinda cynical actually... Something which has incredible value, as if its unreachable, loses all its value once obtained.
Sometimes you have to realise though, that you actually did stumble upon something with true value. Anyhow that's up to you to decide when something is really worth the effort.
That being said, i want to add: good job, the girl's pedastal is completly smashed
. That's a big step, congratsJokerlsk said:We were talking about this subject actually, and she asked, "You have it all figured out don't you?" and I said, "Whoah, whatcha talking about?" and she said, "Just the way you carry yourself. It's like you've got life all figured out. " and i said, "I like to think I do, but I don't have all the answers." and she replied with, "Seems like you do
I've seen girls try to play this game before when I was in high school. They act dumb, worthless, ect, because they think that's what we want ... Someone who is subordinate, inferior (intellectually, socially, whatever) and some guys do want that. She is trying to build you up and show you how amazing she thinks you are and blah blah.. You gotta test it for yourself to see if that is how she really sees herself or if she's just playing the part. If she is for real, then I suggest you run.
"Take a hint"
She's telling you to take the hints she's giving you. Marrying you on facebook? Come on! I didn't see this is as a curveball; it's a green light.
As far as taking her out with your friends, sure, she might have a good time (you'll be risking the possibility that she will see you as only a friend in the future), but taking her out on a one on one date will make you boyfriend material in her eyes, if you aren't already.
I've always been that way with everything. I can't stick with anything. It's weird, and I don't know why. maybe it's my way of handling things.... But you're right Credos. You really made me think about who I am and what I want