"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im a dj, but i need some help with this one?????

Boxer45

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Ok i need some help from some fellow dj's, i went out on a first date like 3 days ago with this fine ass latina, it went really great, but no kiss, this is one of the first dates i never had the kiss on. But i didnt push it so we just had a nice hug at the end. But we really only spent like 2 hours together so i really didnt have too much time to work more game. But the date went great we seemed to hit it off nicely, so i havent talked to her or called her since, except a txt msg saying that i had a nice time. What do yall think my next move should be, she said she wanted to hang out saturday, so im kinda just waiting my time to call her up. Any advice? I really need this one bad!!!!!!!

Ryan
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don_Joffe

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Your a DJ but you need help? I can see you are a DJ by this being your 1st post.
 

Boxer45

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Naw its not like that, i dont need help, i was just wanting some other opions of advice on this one.
 

alakazam

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I don't see a real serious problem...

If you are a DJ as you say, you should know what to do now....
 

Boxer45

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ya im gonna hit her up, i just dont know if it was bad that i didnt get to kiss her on the first date or not??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Freeman

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my view

Not getting a kiss doesn't mean that you done something wrong. I didn't get a kiss on the first date with my ex but we hit it off pretty well after. So I would say that you should make plans with her again. Let us know how it works out!
 
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